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FamilyLife Bible Study for Couples - Dennis Rainey - Paperback $9.99 FamilyLife Bible Study for Couples |
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Familylife Bible Study for Couples $9.99 ">A Study Guide to Equip Couples for Life. >"FamilyLife Bible Study for Couples" helps couples-and those who are one half of a couple-explore the issues facing husbands and wives: resolving conflict, communicating effectively, raising godly children, rekindling and maintaining romance together, loving difficult family members, and more. >With firm biblical grounding, this seven-week study has applications for personal growth, individual reflection questions, and discussion questions for couples and small groups." |
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Couples of the Bible $12.99 "Couples of the Bible is written for young adults, providing insight and information into the joys and challenges of marriage. Each of the nine chapters focuses on a biblical couple. A particular theme in marriage is explored in each chapter. The format is a nine-lesson Bible study series that can be used by individuals or groups. Each chapter/study is divided into three parts: -Sharpen Your Focus, where each biblical couple is brought to center stage. The characters and settings are factual as depicted in the Bible. However, the dialogue among the characters is fictional.; -Let's Discuss It, which helps the reader to apply the given theme to marriage today. Research findings, statistics and quotations are used to support information provided. Thought-provoking questions and present-day scenarios are provided. Relevant scriptures aid readers in responding. This section lends itself to lively group discussions; -Wrap-UP, encourages readers to evaluate their own attitudes and reach conclusions based on the truth of God's Word. Short quizzes, summaries and suggested additional readings add to the young person's understanding. Sunday Schools, Bible Study groups, Youth departments and individuals will find Couples of the Bible especially useful." |
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The New How to Study Your Bible Workbook - Kay Arthur - Paperback $11.25 The New How to Study Your Bible Workbook |
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Sisters Bible Study for Women - A Mile in Her Shoes - Participant's Workbook - Sheron C. Patterson - Paperback $9 Sisters Bible Study for Women - A Mile in Her Shoes - Participant's Workbook |
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The Seed Within: Bible Study for Couples with Childbearing Difficulties $23.95 "When author Leah Vintila and her husband, Keith, faced infertility firsthand, they turned to their faith and were left breathless with the unexpected reality of God's purpose and plans for their family. As a result, Vintila wrote The Seed Within as an uplifting and inspirational guide for those facing infertility or pregnancy loss. Through this book, couples will be taken on a journey through scripture and life application tools to help them discover the abundant fruitfulness that God has planned for their life. As part of this interactive bible study, Vintila leads individuals and small groups on a path to achieving the spiritual wellness needed to help ease the pain of childbearing difficulties. In addition, The Seed Within encourages these individuals and couples to grow in a relationship with Christ that will last well beyond their journey through infertility and pregnancy loss.With this study, participants will be led to understand the many biblical principles that lead to healthy growth. The focused topics in this book include the need for: Fertile soil as a foundation of life in the midst of the uncertainty of parenthood. A seed to be planted by God according to His sovereign plan. Living water as a vital component of growth to help grow God's seed and ease the pain of suffering. Abundant light to illuminate the path out of the dark tunnel of childbearing difficulties. Removal of weeds and pests that seek to harm or limit spiritual growth. The spiritual harvest of overflowing fruitfulness resulting from the partnership with God as the Master Gardner." |
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Getting The Love You Want Workbook: The New Couples' Study Guide $6.69 A companion workbook to the enormously successful New York Times bestselling relationship book, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. In 1988, Harville Hendrix in partnership with his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, published a terrifically successful relationship guide, Getting the Love You Want. The book introduced thousands to their Imago Relationship Therapy, a unique healing process for couples, prospective couples, and parents, and developed into an overnight sensation. For their part, Doctors Hendrix and Hunt managed to aid scores of couples in their plight for more loving, supportive, and deeply satisfying relationships. Now, more than a decade later, this companion book picks up where its predecessor left off, delving further into relationship therapy once again, to help transform relationships into lasting sources of love and companionship. The Getting the Love You Want Workbook is designed for the hundreds of thousands of couples who have attended Imago workshops since Getting the Love You Want hit bookstands, as well as new and curious ones seeking a practical route back to intimacy and passionate friendship. The workbook contains a unique twelve-week course (The New Couples' Study Guide) designed to help work through the exercises published in Part III of Getting the Love You Want. Included are complete step-by-step instructions for transforming relationships into a lasting source of love and companionship. For those of us struggling to maintain our most precious relationships, the Getting the Love You Want Workbook helps us grow aware of our individual, unconscious agenda while steering us towards a more harmonious link with our loved ones that will satisfy our deepest needs. |
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The Marriage You've Always Wanted Bible Study $5.19 From the New York Times bestselling author and international speaker comes this interactive, practical resource designed to help couples grow closer to each other, and closer to God. Couples will discuss and reflect on such areas as money, anger, forgiveness, and spirituality, all in an easy-to-use workbook format. Learn how to share yourself fully with your spouse and express love in a meaningful way. Formerly titled A Couple's Guide to a Growing Marriage . Ideal for personal and group study, and includes an updated resource list at the end of the book. |
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Designing a Woman's Life Study Guide: A Bible Study and Workbook $10.99 "Skillfully crafted to help women discover and pursue their unique, God-given purpose and passion, Designing a Woman's Life Bible Study and Workbook explores the desire for personal fulfillment like no other study on the market. No matter their age or life circumstances, women desire to live purposefully. Now this remarkable study sensitively addresses that desire, addressing such crucial issues as understanding our significance to God, developing integrity and vision, keeping focused, influencing others, and more. Through excerpts from critically-acclaimed ???Designing a Woman's Life, inspirational quotes, and an in-depth Bible study that includes Scripture memorization, activities, prayer, and personal reflection and application, women will discover practical tools to help them live a life they truly love with Designing a Woman's Life Bible Study and Workbook." |
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Designing A Woman's Life Study Guide: A Bible Study And Workbook $11.19 Skillfully crafted to help women discover and pursue their unique God-given purpose and passion Designing a Woman's Life Bible Study and Workbook explores the desire for personal fulfillment like no other study on the market. No matter their age or life circumstances women desire to live purposefully. Now this remarkable study sensitively addresses that desire addressing such crucial issues as understanding our significance to God developing integrity and vision keeping focused influencing others and more. Through excerpts from critically-acclaimed ???Designing a Woman's Life inspirational quotes and an in-depth Bible study that includes Scripture memorization activities prayer and personal reflection and application women will discover practical tools to help them live a life they truly love with Designing a Woman's Life Bible Study and Workbook. From the Trade Paperback edition. |
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Bible Workbook 1 $9.99 "Systematic, individual study of the Bible is a basic requirement for a thorough biblical understanding.Bible Workbooks present a meaningful study of this vital Book.The student learns by doing-information is given and questions are asked to test his understanding.Volume 1 gives an overview and book-by-book study of the Old Testament and Volume 2 covers the New Testament.Interesting, stimulating, informative-Bible Workbooks provide an understandable and enjoyable means of personal Bible study." |
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Bible Workbook 2 $9.99 "Systematic, individual study of the Bible is a basic requirement for a thorough biblical understanding.Bible Workbooks present a meaningful study of this vital Book.The student learns by doing-information is given and questions are asked to test his understanding.Volume 2 gives an overview and book-by-book study of the Old Testament and Volume 1 covers the New Testament.Interesting, stimulating, informative-Bible Workbooks provide an understandable and enjoyable means of personal Bible study." |
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LifeGuide Bible Studies: Couples of the Old Testament $7.99 "The Old Testament tells the stories of fascinating men and women in relationship: couples who live with chronic disappointment, couples who overcome all obstacles to be together, in-laws who can't stand each other, a wife who risks death if she walks in on her husband unannounced, and a husband who takes back his wife when she becomes a prostitute.> There are arranged marriages, fiercely loving marriages, enduring marriages, an instant marriage, a coerced marriage and a perfect marriage--until the couple blew it!> Dale and Sandy Larsen lead you to dig deeper into these relationships highlighted in the Bible to learn important lessons about marriage, God and yourself.> This LifeGuide Bible Study features questions for starting group discussions and for meeting God in personal reflection, together with leader's notes and a "Now or Later" section in each study." |
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Really Bad Girls Of The Bible Workbook $9.99 "Thousands of women around the world have discovered the valuable lessons found in More Bad Girls of the Bible, sharing what they've learned with other women in Sunday School classes, women's Bible studies, and reading groups. Hundreds of those same women clamored for more--more in-depth teaching in a workbook format, more information on using the books in small group studies, more ways to share the grace and sovereignty of God demonstrated in the pages of Bad Girls of the Bible. This workbook meets those needs and more, providing an additional resource for teacher and student alike, or for inidividual readers who want to expand their understanding of these women from the Bible and how their life stories fit into the "big picture" of biblical history. Sized to match the original book, this workbook enhances the message of Liz Curtis Higgs's best selling book. Used in tandem with the video recorded live in September 2000, and the original book, this new workbook will provide women with all the tools they need for personal or group study of all of these Bad News Belles." |
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A Thirst for God (Topical Bible Study) $3.99 The Thirst for God is a study guide on the Lord's prayer. Included is a workbook that you can use as you follow along. |
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Getting the Love You Want Audio Companion: The New Couples' Study Guide $14 The Getting the Love You Want Workbook is designed for the hundreds of thousands of couples who have attended Imago workshops since Getting the Love You Want hit bookstands.... |
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Couples' Devotional Bible-NIV - Zondervan Publishing House - Hardcover $35.99 Couples' Devotional Bible-NIV |
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Scripture Workbook: For Personal Bible Study and Teaching the Bible $15.54 "Zeolla offers studies and exercises for those wishing to learn more about biblical teaching." |
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Scripture Workbook : For Personal Bible Study and Teaching the Bible $15.15 No Synopsis Available |
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Reading the Bible: A Study Guide $22.95 "Introductions to reading the Bible are almost as old as the scriptures themselves, but most of the recently published introductory biblical textbooks focus exclusively on either the Old or the New Testament. In contrast, READING THE BIBLE takes the unusual approach of serving as an introduction to the Bible as a whole, helping the reader understand the Bible as a single entity. In a practical, engaging manner, this book provides a survey of the entire Bible, its sections, its books, and its social, religious, and historical contexts. Then it also serves as a primer in the methodologies of biblical interpretation. And last, it is a workbook, giving examples of how to use the background knowledge from the survey and methodological training to examine in some depth a few selected texts. Drawing on his longtime teaching experience, the author shows readers how to approach the biblical text in a direct, fulfilling and honest manner in order to better understand and interpret it. And he demonstrates that by examining the Bible's historical background, its literary features, and the interpretive possibilities for the text, READING THE BIBLE is the ideal introduction to modern biblical scholarship." |
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Project Management Workbook and PMP / CAPM Exam Study Guide, Study Guide $80 The Leading project management workbook—and an unparalleled PMP/CAPM Exam study guide Now updated and revised in a Tenth Edition, this powerful two-in-one resource—the Project Management Workbook and PMP/CAPM Exam Study Guide —by Harold Kerzner: Supplements the industry-leading project management "bible," Project Management , Tenth Edition, with the most useful workbook of insightful problems and exercises Provides a stand-alone, self-study guide to the Project Management Professional (PMP) Certification Exam, complete with simulated exam questions Offers solutions to all problems, questions, and cases, making it a must-have resource for mastering the critical skills of successful project management |
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Marriage : Learning From Couples In Scripture $6.99 "This study guide explores the actual stories of couples in the Bible-stories that are amazingly similar to the nitty-gritty experiences every couple faces today. Looking at these examples will strengthen your understanding of the marriage covenant and deepen the spiritual dimension of your life together." |
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Bad Girls of the Bible Workbook - Liz Curtis Higgs - Paperback $9.99 Bad Girls of the Bible Workbook |
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Passionate Partnership: Couple's Workbook : A Group Study on Sexuality and Intimacy for Married Couples $18.04 No Synopsis Available |
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Bad Girls Of The Bible Workbook $9.99 "Women everywhere marvel at those "good girls" in Scripture-- Sarah, Mary, Esther, but on most days, that's not who they see when they look in the mirror. Most women (if they're honest) see the selfishness of Sapphira or the deception of Delilah. They catch of glimpse of Jezebel's take-charge pride or Eve's disastrous disobedience. Like Bathsheba, Herodias, and the rest, today's modern woman is surrounded by temptations, exhausted by the demands of daily living, and burdened by her own desires.So what's a good girl to do? Learn from their lives, says beloved humor writer Liz Curtis Higgs, and by God's grace, choose a better path. In Bad Girls of the Bible, Higgs offers a unique and clear-sighted approach to understanding those "other women" in Scripture, combining a contemporary retelling of their stories with a solid, verse-by-verse study of their mistakes and what lessons women today can learn from them.Whether they were "Bad to the Bone," "Bad for a Season, but Not Forever" or only "Bad for a Moment," these infamous sisters show women how not to handle the challenges of life. With her trademark humor and encouragement, Liz Curtis Higgs teaches us how to avoid their tragic mistakes and joyfully embrace grace." |
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Slightly Bad Girls Of The Bible Workbook $9.99 "Sara mistreated her maidservant. Hagar despised her mistress. Rebekah manipulated her son. Leah claimed her sister's husband. And Rachel envied her fertile sister.In Slightly Bad Girls Of The Bible, designed for both individual reading and group use - Liz once again combines contemporary fiction and verse-by-verse commentary in her novel approach to Bible study, offering eye-opening lessons for women who long to know, "Does God love me, flaws and all?"" |
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Algebra Study Guide Workbook - McGraw-Hill - Paperback $9.35 Algebra Study Guide Workbook |
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Living By The Book Workbook: The Art And Science Of Reading The Bible $8.89 Far from being mundane, exploring God's Word can be one of the greatest adventures of your life! In the Bible you can interact with a living God who wants a personal relationship with you. And in this unique workbook you will learn how to engage His words like never before. Based on the inductive study techniques outlines in the bestselling Living by the Book , this workbook creates the opportunity to grow in faith and knowledge through short, practical exercises and complete studies of the books of Ruth and James. In simple step-by-step fashion, you will learn to observe, interpret, and apply the Scripture to transform your life. |
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The New How to Study Your Bible Workbook: Discover the Life-Changing Approach to God's Word $12.99 ">Beloved international Bible teacher Kay Arthur has helped millions of people explore and understand Goda (TM)s Word for themselves. Joining with David Arthur and Pete De Lacy, both of Precept Ministries International, Kay shares an interactive workbook companion to her bestselling The New How to Study Your Bible to help each reader glean the riches of Scripture for their personal journey as they > >apply the inductive study approach to specific Scriptures for deeper understanding > >encounter Goda (TM)s messages through questions, reflections, and insights> >receive greater insight into key words, major themes, and topical studies>> >>This amazing companion will help readers of The New How to Study Your Bible master the personal and profound inductive study method and make new discoveries each time they turn to Goda (TM)s Word. They will view their purpose, decisions, actions, faith, and their lives through the lens of His truth and hope." |
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Bible Study - Kathleen Buswell Nielson - Paperback $11.05 Bible Study |
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The Bible $22 This study focuses on the Bible as a landmark of literature. |
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How to Study the Bible : A Discussion and Workbook in 12 Lessons $7.75 No Synopsis Available |
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Lessons to Live By : Bible Study and Devotional Workbook $16.53 No Synopsis Available |
Case Management: A Case of Sexual Addiction
Ryan and Sarah (not their real names) are missionaries. Both were born in Latin America, so they didn't go through cultural adjustments or have problems learning the language when they arrived in South America. They are having a successful ministry together planting a new church in the city where they live. Following a few days visiting in the home of this couple, Ryan approached me nervously and asked to talk about an issue before I returned to Lima. He began by saying that he had a good relationship with God and good communication with his wife. They never had sex before getting married, but he used to masturbate on a regular basis while he watched pornography. This continued after they got married. In the country where he lives, it is easy to find highly erotic programs on TV late at night, and sometimes he would go to the TV room and masturbate without control. One night, his wife caught him in this activity. In his guilt, he cried and promised not to do it again but he was unable to keep his promise. He tried everything to stop praying, fasting, more Bible study but nothing seemed to work. At one point he concluded that he must have a demon. He rationalized that this was just something he would have to live with, that he was oversexed, and that every male has the same problem. I listened in silence while he opened this door to his intimate and personal life, but when I gently told him that not every man struggles with this problem, he began to sob.
He had convinced himself and his wife that every married man masturbated on a regular basis watching pornography. I am a counselor, but he was coming to me as his friend, talking with a colleague about a personal issue. On the way home, I tried to understand the rationale behind this behavior. I thought of my own teenage struggles with masturbation and pornography. Later, when I worked as a youth pastor I was frustrated with the silence inside the church about sexuality and also with the simplistic answers pastors give to their members, especially teenagers, telling them that the solution is praying more or singing better. I had concluded that masturbation is a symptom of some kind of emotional dysfunction, so my first approach to Ryan problem was to focus on his emotional life.
In an e-mail to me, he replied that he could not think of any emotional problems in his life, but he would like to tell me about his background.
He had grown up on the mission field where many missionaries used to send their children to boarding schools because there were no English speaking schools nearby. Missions have changed dramatically in the last 20 years, and it now is possible to find better schools locally. But at one time (and in many places today), many missionaries were like
Ryan parents, concerned about their kids but convinced that sending their children to boarding school was Gods will, a sacrifice missionaries had to make so they could spread the Gospel message. Most of the children in Ryan missionary school were well adjusted, living in an environment that was healthy and spiritual. Even so, extracting a child from his or her natural environment and inserting the young person into an artificial one has a high price. Children in these schools learn to control and hide their emotions. Some get the message that, if I cry and show sadness, I will be defeating God's will, so it is better to learn how to control myself.
Ryan reported that growing up in this school was a good experience, but leaving his school was painful. He went to a Christian college in the United States and, for the first time, learned about masturbation and where to find pornography. Soon he was hooked. Several years later on the mission field, he couldn't control this behavior. As I kept getting his e-mail messages, I was reading about sexual addiction and suspected that the roots of this behavior were someplace in his boarding school experience, but it seemed that there was nothing there. Everything was described as being so perfect that I had some doubts. Then one day, Ryan got up the courage to tell me about an experience when he was seven or eight years old. An older student abused him sexually. He was afraid to tell his parents so he just buried all his feelings. But when he started to explore this he remembered another experience, when he was in college. One day he felt sick and went to the college doctor. His problem was a sore throat but the physician started by asking Ryan how often he masturbated. Then, the doctor asked him to take his clothes off for a full examination and while he was lying on the examination table he noticed that the doctor was having an erection. The young man wanted to run, to hit the doctor, to react, but he couldn't, and stayed there until the doctor finished his inspection. As he fled from the room, Ryan experienced some of the held-in feelings he had had in boarding school. In that unrealistic world of Christian discipline in the boarding school, they never talked about morals, always assuming that strict rules would control behavior. Ryan had learned how to hide his emotions and feelings even in the face of abuse. He had never learned how to develop close relationships or to build intimacy. Instead he had learned to cope with his emotional needs for closeness by developing fake relationships with fantasy women, finding never-satisfying fulfillment in pornography and masturbation. The key to his recovery was in learning
How to develop intimate relationships, starting with his wife. But at the same time, he needed to stop the behavior. Ryan was communicating with me as a friend, and I thought Sarah should know about our conversations. She was not happy with this knowledge but agreed to talk about it. At this point, Ryan and I had communicated through dozens of e-mails and long distance phone calls, but we all decided that they would come to Lima and stay in our house. We agreed that Ryan had a problem and that our first task was to stop the behavior. We set some external rules similar to what he had experienced in the boarding school so that he could gain temporary control. First of all, Sarah would hide the TV antenna so Ryan could not watch the TV alone. Second, Ryan could not have access to the Internet alone. When Ryan felt tempted he had to tell Sarah or call me. Finally, If Ryan succumbed to temptation, he had to tell Sarah, then call me to discuss his feelings. We also established a system of rewards. For example, if Ryan could go without masturbating for 15 days, I would buy him a present. These rules were very useful for the first few weeks, but they didn't last too long. They did last long enough, however, for him to work in other areas. The rules gave him more confidence that he could defeat his problem and win this fight. We started to work on the area of intimacy. I pictured intimacy as an emotional muscle. In Ryan's case, this muscle wasn't properly developed so he had to work it out by learning to build intimacy with a few friends. But Ryan and Sarah live in an area where they have few friends, so he and I agreed to work on our friendship. This is not recommended, but in the culture where they live there seemed to be no alternatives. At times, I felt we would lose our friendship, but they stayed in our house in Lima and we spent three to four hours a day talking and praying together. After the week together, they returned to their home and we resumed the e-mails and phone calls. Ryan felt more tempted than ever, and it seemed that all the theories we were applying weren't working. In the part of South America where Ryan lives, there are no Christian counselors, and I doubt that a secular psychologist would pay too much attention to Ryan's situation. With the theories not working, he returned to Lima. He seemed to be experiencing a kind of withdrawal, like withdrawal from caffeine or other drugs. I had seen reactions like that in friends who had stopped smoking cold turkey. To confirm this, we tried an experiment. We sat at my computer, and together we accessed the Internet. Without his knowledge, I had pre-configured the browser so that it would not be possible for him to see the pictures.
*In Response to Ivan Velasco By Christopher McClusky*
Ivan Velasco is a living example of Galatians 6:1, Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. All work with sexual addiction requires a powerful commitment to gentle restoration in the Lord. Mr. Velasco has identified the two opposing challenges that make sexual addiction recovery so difficult: Controlling the behavior while healing the woundedness. As soon as behavioral control is established and work begun on the woundedness, temptation greatly increases to deaden the pain of the wounds by engaging in the behavior. He has also identified the critical piece of neurochemical dependency and withdrawal in sexual addiction. The body becomes addicted to endorphine, adrenaline, and other mood-altering neurochemistry generated during sexual arousal and orgasm. A client of mine once commented, Compared with sexual addiction, overcoming drug addiction was a cake walk.
One of the common denominators of all sexual addictions is a flight from intimacy. The individuals do not know themselves beyond the various masks they present to the world. Having little intimate knowledge of themselves, they are unable to be intimate with others, including God. Their lives are a mass of defense mechanisms, performers seeking acceptance and approval. To be affirmed, even for being someone they are not, is their only experience of love outside of the fantasy worlds they create in their minds and through pornography. A 12-step or therapy group can create a safe environment in which to practice the risk-taking required to know oneself, and to develop the skills necessary for true intimacy with others. Ryan would benefit greatly from such a group. I would encourage Mr. Velasco to explore more deeply the incident of sexual abuse in childhood. However, a person can still evidence the emotional vacuum that is the force behind sexual addiction without any trace of childhood sexual abuse. Neglect leaves the same marks on the psyche as abuse. When key ingredients nec- visit an erotic web page. He did this. Then I asked him to open an erotic picture. As he was about to do so, I asked him to stop and describe to me all what he was feeling. He said he felt as if adrenaline was rushing throughout his body, arousing tension and excitement. Though he could not see anything, his body was still reacting. Ryan's withdrawal period lasted two to three days. After that he felt free of the compulsion and was able to avoid masturbation for more than 50 days life record for him. During these 50 days, he realized the need for deeper relationships. We analyzed the way he had handled our friendship. We talked about ways in which he could change. I suggested that his recovery would be easier if he had another friend to trust, so that I could take the role of counselor, but this seemed impossible so we did the best we could. Since these discussions, Ryan has worked hard on relationships and has improved more than I expected. He is gaining control over his sexuality, and even when he has masturbated again, it's been after weeks and months of victory. He not only has victory and confidence, but he has a better relationship
with Sarah and, I think, a better understanding of his relationship with God. Ryan story is not uncommon for men who grew up on the mission field. While the boarding school may be a truly healthy and spiritual place, it is often lacking in a daily experience of relational intimacy.
Differing caregivers, nannies, and instructors can never substitute for a parents love. It is the experience of being loved for who we are, rather than simply approved for what we do, that develops an experiential knowledge of intimacy and invites the soul into fullness of relationship. In an effort to assuage the ache of relational deprivation, children quite naturally develop defense mechanisms. Some of the most effective are (1) holding their emotions inside, (2) creating fantasy worlds for escape in which they feel loved and accepted, and (3) becoming performers to gain approval and not embarrass their parents. Having employed these defense mechanisms for years, it is very easy to develop a sexual addiction once adult notions of sexuality are introduced. Whether the introduction is in college through pornography, in adolescence with the start of nocturnal emissions and discovery of masturbation, or in childhood through some form of sexual abuse, the rush of sexual arousal and orgasm seems to temporarily fill their emotional void. Since this discovery falls in the fertile soil of a person already skilled at hiding, escaping, and performing, it can seem a power too tempting to resist. Mr. Velasco should continue to focus on intimacy skills and increasingly bring Sarah into their sessions. She will have her own woundedness and issues that need attention. A great resource for ministering to couples is the intensive workshops facilitated by Dr. Mark Laaser and the Christian Alliance for Sexual Recovery (www.casr.org). These workshops and other Christian texts and workbooks should be used to supplement their work. Finally, there are obvious problems in this case with dual relationship. Unfortunately, in third-world countries our ability to work within strict guidelines of ethical practice is often impaired. Mr. Velasco has done the proper thing as a Christian in ministering healing, while acknowledging the blurring of boundaries. He should continue to actively seek other old resources for healing, while pushing harder for development of a network of friends and accountability partners for Ryan.Web counselor plays a vital role for the welfare of society.
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